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Ever since then, when I meet someone who spews out anger and negativity, it offers me a glimpse of how awful their internal experience of the world is.
A person who is content and has peace of mind is very unlikely to project anger and bitterness on a regular basis.
Stick to the facts and take the dignified path always. Never be confrontational or belittling with intimidating people. Ironically, many intimidating people have learned this behaviour due to feeling powerless and unheard as children.
Look at the other person as someone to figure out and understand rather than someone to challenge. This is a generalisation but I have come across many clients who seem intensely gruff on the outside but once you get to know them, you realise it’s all a ‘front’.
We compare ourselves to others all the time because we get a feeling of safety and security when we know we're just as good as--if not better than--someone else.
The more emotional intelligence one has the easier it is to deal with intimidation from others.
Imagine yourself talking to the little child inside the intimidating person.