Christian dating getting to know each other
(If the other hasn’t seen it, narrate in detail.)Which fruit/vegetable do you think I resemble and why? The one argument your parents had, that you would try and avoid with your partner, would be over…Which is your favourite asset/body part on a man/woman and why?
Can you remember your earliest childhood memory of happiness and that of fear? What are the qualities that draw you to people that you can base a friendship on? The most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you was…Your most wicked fantasy has got to be… Your favourite song of all times and why – is it because of the lyrics, because of the memories associated with it or just the whole package?
Which three parts of my body are your personal favourites and why? If your house was on fire and you had a chance to grab only five things before leaving, they would be…If you were asked whom you would like to be born again as, the answer would be…Which is your favourite flavour of ice cream, your favourite junk food and your favourite dessert?
Can you name three qualities that attracted you when you met me/got to know me? Which is your favourite movie of all time and favourite scene in it? Whose wardrobe would you most like to possess and why?
Can you give me a mock session of how you would discuss sex education when you have a child? Your first date – where did you go, what did you do and how long did the relationship last? (Be open to this one, if you react adversely, he/she will never feel free to confide in you again.)If our relationship doesn’t work out, do you think we can remain friends? If somebody handed you a magic lamp and gave you three wishes, what would they be?
What upsets you most in a relationship and what makes you the happiest? If someone told you they saw me with another guy, what would your first reaction be – she’s cheating on me, he’s probably an old friend or I need to get to the bottom of this?
The partial integration of a boyfriend or girlfriend into your life is undeniably helpful for imagining what the complete integration might be like.
That being said, I wish everyone could date long-distance.
People are pursuing marriage in more ways than ever before.
In long-distance dating, you will not have the regular, everyday time together that same-city relationships will — fewer nights out, fewer errand trips, less time together with mutual friends, fewer shared experiences that feel like normal life.