Dating site red flags
Over the last few years I've received hundreds of emails from women dating widowers.
From them I’ve noticed some patterns of behavior that indicate the widower isn’t ready for a serious relationship and just using the woman to temporarily fill the void created by the death of his late wife.
Hair color, body type, or similar interests are just a few things that might make him notice you.
If you look, act, think, or have other similarities to the late wife, be very concerned – particularly if the widower’s wife is recently deceased.
He’ll find a way to make his home and other places you frequent together a place where you’ll feel comfortable. He Won’t Tell You That He Loves You The widower sends you cards, flowers, and chocolates.
You have great dates and fun-filled romantic weekends together.
He will find a way to introduce you to family and friends.
The Widower Hides You from Family and Friends It’s not easy for a widower to let friends and family know there’s a new woman in his life – especially when many of them are still grieving over the late wife’s passing.
There Are Still Visible Shrines to the Late Wife When a wife dies, she becomes immortalized.