In doing so you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses.
Indulge your targets’ every mood and whim, giving them nothing to react against or resist.
Mesmerized by what they see, they will not notice what your are really up to.
Important things happen when your targets are alone: The slightest feeling of relief that you are not their, and it is all over.
Most of us are much too obvious—instead, be hard to figure out.
And elusive, enigmatic aura will make people want to known more, drawing them into you circle.
The trick to making them listen is to say what they want to hear, to fill their ears with whatever is pleasant to them. Inflame people’s emotions with loaded phrases, flatter them, comfort their insecurities, envelop them in sweet words and promises, and not only will they listen to you, they will lose their will to resist you.