Good conversation starter online dating
Flirting is fun, but when you’re doing it online you need to be slower about it than normal.
Because your partner can’t see you, or the signals you’re sending, flirting too early in an online exchange can be a huge turn-off.
I have to keep reminding clients that horses hang out in hay, and you probably don’t want to date a horse, so ditch the word “hey” please!
Before you start agonizing about precisely what to type to someone who’s probably chatting with 10 other people, keep it simple and unique, and you’ll get you past the first round.
The more they answer, the more fuel you’ve got for the conversation.
Even better, you’ve just won some major points by flattering their ego (even if it’s just a little).
Seriously, men are the worst offenders here – don’t talk about the size of ANYTHING until you at least know what her favorite drink is (and have bought her a few)! Don’t write long essays about yourself, which seem extremely interesting to you, but might not be all that easy to reply to.
Over to Claudia for some savvy advice on how to keep that online chat going in the right direction.