Just found out my fiance is on internet dating sites
Finding out if your man is cheating on you by using Internet dating sites is not that hard to do.
However, it can be time-consuming, especially if your guy is computer-savvy.
When it comes to figuring out how to find a cheating man on Internet dating sites, they may have a lot more luck in getting proof of your guy's online affair than you.
Rosallee Scott has been a freelance writer since 1998.
I discovered by accident he had been using a dating site, and in the last two months had been winking and flirting with women on it. And he has made me feel like I’m such an awful person. (That’s why “accident” is in quotes.) But the problem here, is once you procure information in a covert fashion it’s very difficult to do much with it.
I didn’t say anything for a couple of days because I was in shock and wanted to be calm when I discussed it with him. But then he sent me an odd text saying he loves me. Once you tell him how you discovered the information he’ll immediately shut down and feel that you violated the trust of your relationship. However, even though you “accidentally” discovered the information, now that you have it, it trumps any argument he can raise.
You may need to enter a credit card to search in depth, but many online dating sites offer free browsing of profiles.
(You just can't contact the other members without paying.) Once on the site, you may need to do some creative searching.
Check the record of what he's typed in whenever you have the time and freedom to do so, and see if he's looking for (or already having) an affair. A lot of online dating places have a monthly fee that needs to be billed to a credit card.
Browse by your general area, the city that your husband works in and his major interests; any of these may turn up results. Even if your guy has his real name listed as public information on his profile, very few dating websites use names as a search option. If all else fails, you can always seek professional assistance.