If I hear about one more girl letting a guy she met via social media or any other way besides a trusted friend introducing the two of you, pick her up, I’m going to lose my mind. If you have been crushing on this guy for a while, it’s hard not to imagine your future together. If you don’t, you are majorly putting yourself at risk for sabotaging the relationship and/or breaking your own heart. Look, I’m not going to pressure you into giving every guy out there more than one date.Sometimes you just know it’s not going to work due to major personality, faith or moral based issues.She was kind enough to join me for a second interview (read the first interview here) to talk about Mackinaw Island, a real-life romance with Joe Lando, and how she finds balance in her busy family life. How did you come up with the idea to answer fan questions via video? We emailed people we knew that had web sites dedicated to us in different ways, and we just said if any of the fans had any questions for Joe and I then this was their opportunity. He's a filmmaker and I thought he made us look rather good. He's hoping to direct a movie fairly soon, but he's filmed things for me for Kay Jewelers and things that are on the web site. We loved it so much in fact that Joe on one day, on our day off, wanted to go and look at real estate.We got all these wonderful questions, so what we did was sit down together in front of the Christmas tree and this is our gift to the fans. He's notoriously uncomfortable doing any of those things or even having his photograph taken, and he loved doing this and he said he's keen on it, he enjoyed it. He shoots for other people obviously, he gets hired, but he's a great photographer, too. You have four children all involved in something fantastic, yes? Was this your first time working with James, Katie and Joe all at once? Katie wrote and starred in , in which she plays Marie Antoinette's daughter when I was Marie Antoinette. James and I have worked together consistently since we met. I asked him why James, and he said, 'It's really hard to find actor's in his age group, who have the kind of character to pull off playing a mogul.' There are actors his age, but not too many that can play the business magnate. I think he just wanted to see what he could get there that he couldn't buy in California.
Do not, under any circumstance, let him pick you up from your house if you hardly know him. I have seen more damage done to women because of what they allowed themselves to dream and fantasize about over any guy leading them on. Don’t let them muse about your future nuptials either.
But if you are dating to find your forever-teammate, it’s probably time to reevaluate how you are grading your dates and identify what it is you’re actually looking for beyond a fun night.